My long-term primary partner mrpet and I are parting ways, mutually and amicably. I still have a great deal of respect for him as a person and I'm really glad we've had the relationship we did. Please do not feel you need to choose between us as friends, party guests, or anything else.
We will be having a handparting ritual and hope that many of you who have supported and loved us over the years can be there. More details on this as they are available.
My good friend tsuj is being generous enough to allow me to stay with her in Brookline while I get my feet back under me. I plan to move most of my things on Saturday, October 23rd. I would very much appreciate the help of anyone who can assist me with that. Pizza, hard and soft cider, and good karma will be yours.
Comments are screened. A second post with more logistical stuff (things I need and need help with, for instance) will follow. In the meantime, your good thoughts for us are appreciated. I know the support of my friends is what's going to get me through this.